When Love Stumbles — A Day Retreat with Bodhipaksa | Aryaloka Buddhist Retreat Center

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When Love Stumbles — A Day Retreat with Bodhipaksa, Dec 7, 10-4

As we know all too well, even after years of practice it's not easy to remain kind and compassionate. We often lose our footing, slipping into judgements and criticisms, getting frustrated with ourselves and others, and harboring resentments and even contempt. This isn’t a sign that we’re bad practitioners. It’s just that it truly is a difficult thing we’ve taken on.

Fortunately, the Buddhist tradition offers us numerous tools to help us return to being kind and compassionate after we’ve stumbled. Often these tools encourage us to look at the deeper roots that sustain the various forms of aversion and hostility to which we’re prone.

On this workshop, we’ll explore and practice some of these tools, learning not just how to pick ourselves up when we stumble, but also how to be more sure-footed on the path, so that we can stay more grounded in states of love.

Led by <a href="https://aryaloka.org/bodhipaksa" style="text-decoration:none">Bodhipaksa</a> 
Check out Bodhipaksa’s courses, articles and resources at <a href="https://www.wildmind.org/" style="text-decoration:none">Wildmind.org</a> and look for his <a href="https://www.windhorsepublications.com/product-category/authors/bodhipak…; style="text-decoration:none">new book</a> in October 2025.

This workshop includes a vegetarian lunch. You can access helpful information about attending workshops at Aryaloka <a href="https://aryaloka.org/about-your-visit-aryaloka">here</a>.

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